William Wordsworth : "It's better to love someone than not to love"
These days (all boring ones) atleasrt one thing good is happening to me. Daily i try to have certain general discussions with my cousins, all in english (far from normality). So, i m kind of improving on my spontainity and converting my thoughts in to words somewhat exactly.
It was yesterday night that my cousin demanded for my thoughts on one of William wordsworth's sayings : " It's better to love someone than not to love".
Her argument was "Something is better than nothing". Actually she is not the kind of girl whos in to love & stuff......... One of those peculiar Mom & Dad obeying girls. But as of me, i m very much in to love (though i don't have girl :p ).
So, as far as "Into Love" yours truly is concerned, i believe that yes, It's better to love someone. It's not demanded that u should be laila or majnu. But atleast one should carry that feeling of love within himself. Why to let even a little darkness of hatred to creep in to ur thoughts. And to avoid this darkness of hatred, its important to love.
Dreaming Love :::::::
Loving someone does not only mean to be together, to feel her body next to urs. Theres something called love with separation, usuallly called in Hindi as "Virah Ka Prem". The word itself signifies how selfless such kind of love could be. But isn't this getting too heavenly. Afterall we are human beings and that too normal, so we tend to develop a feeling of having someone close to us. One wants to feel the other right there, very close to him. Thats, what is practical.
I have always wanted to love, cannot disclose whether i have loved someone or not, but i can tell u that feeling of thinking about someone in dreams, those futuristic thoughts of a HAPPY ENDING , those tender moments (though in dreams) really lights up your mind, body, soul & everything around u. It seems as if u have attained eternity, u r lost but happily so,
The feeling of "I am not what I am, its what WE are",
climbing up the ladders of emagination, reaching where no one could ever find u, is really soothing.
But it gives u a lot of pain when those dreams end. U fall down from those high clouds of imagination (at the speed of light) back to the undecent earth. It really hurts when u realise that what u were dreaming of was never urs, and may be would never be urs. Whom u were praising a few moments back was never near u, may be would never be nearer. So, it gives the taste of hapiness & sorrow both, followed by one another. And i can assure u that the taste is not too bad.
Practicality of Love ::::::::
Dreaming may sound quite easier, even the taste of love may not get u to vomit, but the reality can really let u count on ur nerves. And the reality (that bites ofcourse) is ' How to say what u feel'. How to bring ur clouds of imagination down on earth and utter them out. Thats one of the most difficult exams one can go through. The one who passes is the winner. The winner of dreams & imaginations. A winner in love.
Some r champs (definitely not me) at it & some r dumbo (Yapeeeeee!!!!! its me ;) ).
But still, whether ur a champ or me (a love dumbo), its worth having that feeling of tenderness in u. So, r u in it for love ....................???????
It was yesterday night that my cousin demanded for my thoughts on one of William wordsworth's sayings : " It's better to love someone than not to love".
Her argument was "Something is better than nothing". Actually she is not the kind of girl whos in to love & stuff......... One of those peculiar Mom & Dad obeying girls. But as of me, i m very much in to love (though i don't have girl :p ).
So, as far as "Into Love" yours truly is concerned, i believe that yes, It's better to love someone. It's not demanded that u should be laila or majnu. But atleast one should carry that feeling of love within himself. Why to let even a little darkness of hatred to creep in to ur thoughts. And to avoid this darkness of hatred, its important to love.
Dreaming Love :::::::
Loving someone does not only mean to be together, to feel her body next to urs. Theres something called love with separation, usuallly called in Hindi as "Virah Ka Prem". The word itself signifies how selfless such kind of love could be. But isn't this getting too heavenly. Afterall we are human beings and that too normal, so we tend to develop a feeling of having someone close to us. One wants to feel the other right there, very close to him. Thats, what is practical.
I have always wanted to love, cannot disclose whether i have loved someone or not, but i can tell u that feeling of thinking about someone in dreams, those futuristic thoughts of a HAPPY ENDING , those tender moments (though in dreams) really lights up your mind, body, soul & everything around u. It seems as if u have attained eternity, u r lost but happily so,
The feeling of "I am not what I am, its what WE are",
climbing up the ladders of emagination, reaching where no one could ever find u, is really soothing.
But it gives u a lot of pain when those dreams end. U fall down from those high clouds of imagination (at the speed of light) back to the undecent earth. It really hurts when u realise that what u were dreaming of was never urs, and may be would never be urs. Whom u were praising a few moments back was never near u, may be would never be nearer. So, it gives the taste of hapiness & sorrow both, followed by one another. And i can assure u that the taste is not too bad.
Practicality of Love ::::::::
Dreaming may sound quite easier, even the taste of love may not get u to vomit, but the reality can really let u count on ur nerves. And the reality (that bites ofcourse) is ' How to say what u feel'. How to bring ur clouds of imagination down on earth and utter them out. Thats one of the most difficult exams one can go through. The one who passes is the winner. The winner of dreams & imaginations. A winner in love.
Some r champs (definitely not me) at it & some r dumbo (Yapeeeeee!!!!! its me ;) ).
But still, whether ur a champ or me (a love dumbo), its worth having that feeling of tenderness in u. So, r u in it for love ....................???????
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2 Comments:
read ur blog
little that i know of you is your the best person at heart.
only person i feel who is not hesitant to open himself up infront of people, boys case it is true if not girls
keep up your writings and lovely nature and sure ull find love of your heart
and personally always love "the one"
"The irresistible desire to be irresistably desired", that's what Shakespear himself felt about love. And when he have proclaimed that who an I to disagree with me.
You write lovely things about love, and I can feel both hope and despair in your words. But despair not, for despair is for those who have no hope left. Yet hope there is, for a person like you, a person who is deserving for the kind of love you can shower will come, one day and you will say to each other "I love you" and the best part is, mean it too!!
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